Do colleges teach you how to make a living?
I was talking with an industrial psychologist once about college and making a living. The psychologist said: “the only people who go to college are the ones that aren’t smart enough to make a living without it!” Well, I think that is a gross exaggeration but there is some truth in it. But everyone needs to make a living some time, and the sooner we learn it the better off we are.
As a homeschooler you have the advantage of teaching your child this yourself. It comes naturally to some, some learn it via osmosis from their parents, and unfortunately some never seem to figure it out. Focusing some time on it with your child early will make a difference. I suggest that you teach your child how to make a living by comparing it to how businesses do it. Done right, your child will learn both, and get equipped for either a job or an entrepreneurial venture when he grows up. Here are a few simple things to start with:
Attending College is an adventurous and exciting experience that shouldn’t be diminished or desolated by any factor. Unfortunately college is not as fun as it sounds. College is a place where friends go to chat and learn, where students can relate to friends by interests and careers. On the other hand, College life distracts students from their personal lives. Families, housework, and birthday parties tend to get in the way of college success. Instead, homework and studying time becomes the first priority. College life overtakes a student’s ability to balance social, emotional, and physical well being. For decades students have become “pressure cookers”.
It is a constant struggle between college life and personal life for four years. A study was conducted among two thousand students nationwide, testing the average stress levels. According to the survey, eighty percent of college students go through high levels of stress on a daily basis. In that survey it showed that at least ten percent were actually thinking of committing suicide. As stress accumulates, college students become less reliant on eating and sleeping habits, and ultimately loose motivation over irresponsibility. This happens simultaneously when there is unbalance between college life and personal life.